Friendliness can be a downfall.
I am a friendly person, I love talking and engaging with people. (I’ve taken an introvert/extrovert several times and always get highly extroverted; and I’ve taken Strengthsquest and was very people oriented. I’ve also taken the Color Test and wound up in Blue which is people oriented. So basically.. I love people) I am a naturally happy and high energy person, so I love bouncing around and talking with other people. Enter boys. Because I love talking, every time i spend a little more time that normal with a guy, or am seen talking/texting one, I immediately have a thing for them, or appear to be “flirting” (dude side note, i can’t flirt to save my life). Which is annoying bc then i feel awkward and it strains my friendships with the guys since they keep hearing that we “have a thing”.. Like no, sorry I like to talk to people.
Currently I’m linked to 2 1/2 guys lol. And am constantly joked and teased with. And i really don’t mind bc ya know, whatever, i know it’s not true. I just hope my friends know I don’t have a thing for every guy i joke with.
― J.R.R. Tolkien (via baldwin4-1185)
these ladies are my idols
ok but really i’m obsessed with this pic of me and my roomie omg